The Benefits of Family Members Contributing to a Funeral Service
Planning a funeral can feel overwhelming, but it is also a chance for families to come together, share memories, and create a service that truly reflects the life of a loved one.
We often see how meaningful it can be when family members play an active role in arranging the elements of a funeral.
Involving relatives not only eases the planning process but also helps with healing and ensures the farewell feels personal and heartfelt.
Ways Family Members Can Contribute
There are many ways loved ones can take part in shaping a funeral service :
- Supplying Flowers : Family members may wish to provide flowers from their own gardens or select arrangements that carry personal significance. For example, a favourite rose, native blooms, or even a handmade wreath can bring a unique touch.
- Arranging Music : Music often speaks where words cannot. Families can select songs that reflect special memories—whether it’s a beloved hymn, a classical piece, or a modern song that represents the person’s character and life.
- Designing the Order of Service : Some families choose to design the printed Order of Service themselves. This can include treasured photos, poems, or personal messages that highlight the individuality of the person being honoured.
- Creating a Slideshow or Video Tribute : Compiling photos and video clips into a slideshow is a powerful way to celebrate a life. Relatives can gather images spanning childhood through to later years, weaving them together with music for a moving visual tribute.
- Personal Readings and Tributes : Friends and family may wish to write and deliver eulogies, poems, or readings that capture unique memories. This personal involvement often leaves a lasting impression on everyone present.
- Preparing a Memory Table : A display of personal belongings—such as sporting memorabilia, artwork, travel souvenirs, or hobbies—can be arranged by family members to give guests a deeper sense of the person’s passions.
- Organising Catering : After the service, families may contribute by preparing or arranging food for the wake. Sharing favourite recipes or dishes the loved one enjoyed can create warmth and connection.
Why Family Involvement Matters
When families take part in these elements, the funeral becomes more than a formal occasion; it becomes a true reflection of a life lived.
Participation can also ease feelings of helplessness during grief by providing a meaningful way to honour and remember.
Importantly, it can help bring family members closer together, uniting them in love and shared purpose.
At Northern Beaches Funerals, we encourage families to be as involved as they wish in the planning process.
Whether you would like to supply flowers, create a slideshow, or design the Order of Service, our team will guide you and provide support every step of the way.
Every person is unique. Every family is different.
With us, every Funeral is Individual.
Contact Northern Beaches Funerals at any time :
-- 0455 285 041
-- info@northernbeachesfunerals.com.au